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Stay Out Of Airport Full Body Scanners

They say that anything can kill you these days. The poisons that we use in our homes, the plastic water bottles we use everyday, the questionable ways that are food is grown and sprayed with insecticides. I think we all know that many of these things in modern life should be avoided, used properly, or thoroughly washed. But, when it comes to walking though the Full Body Scanners at the airport, most of us don't even give it a second thought. The government says that the radiation put off from these machines is less than we would receive flying at cruising altitude for just a few minutes. So, what's the issue? Don't believe everything you are told, especially about Full Body Scanners.

According to the TSA’s Frequently Asked Questions page, the machine “uses harmless electromagnetic waves to detect potential threats, which are highlighted on a generic outline of a person appearing on a monitor attached to the unit. If no anomalies are detected, an ‘OK’ appears on the screen with no outline.”

Unfortunately, this is deliberately misleading. A closer look into millimeter wave technology and the ways in which it affects the human body during an average TSA screening reveals a truth that the government doesn’t want you to know. The doses of electromagnetic radiation emitted by the TSA’s millimeter wave technology machines can cause gene mutations, nerve damage, sterility, affect the immune system, and even cause cancer.

A World Health Organization report reveals that millimeter waves not only heat the skin but also damage eyesight and cause cancer, particularly cancer of the skin.

Skip the Full Body Scanner and Opt for a Pat Down

Bottom line - Air travelers, when faced with the Full Body Scanner at the airport, should Opt-Out and choose a manual pat-down instead. Even though it's physically invasive and admittedly unconstitutional, air travelers can minimize their radiation exposure and thus minimize the risk of developing cancer by not subjecting yourself to these Full Body Scanners.

Partly taken from the article  www.thetruthaboutcancer.com/airport-full-body-scanner

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Pele's Curse - Follow Up

Back in 2014 we posted an article titled "Pele's Cursewhich warned visitors about the perils of taking home lava rocks from Hawaii. The curse of Pele apparently will bring down tremendous woes to those who take her "children". Each year hundreds of packages arrive at the Honolulu Post Office addressed to Madam Pele and containing lava rocks from all over the islands.

Recently, we received a package from Sandy from Canada, who saw the post Pele's Curse on this blog and sent back many corals she had collected on her recent trip to Maui. Although her husband thought she was being over cautious,  my feeling is that it's better to be safe than sorry. This is not the first package we have received from visitors that contained lava rocks, coral and shells. It's best to just leave these things here in Hawaii in the first place. Here is a photo of the package she sent.

Here are some other stories that we have found;

Enclosed are 5 lava rocks that my wife & I took from the Big Island during our honeymoon in April of 1991. We've regretted it ever since. Our luck has been tough the last 13 years. Well, today is our 13th Wedding Anniversary. We've rededicated ourselves to each other and setting things right. ..not only with each other, but with Pele. Please return these missing rocks to her along with our apologies.  Sincerely, T. & C.G., Bellingham, WA  

I just arrived home from a fantastic vacation in Kona. While walking on the public access beach at the Sands Resort I picked up a small piece of lava rock & coral to bring home. When I arrived home and unpacked I was showing my husband my souvenirs and he panicked when I pulled out the rock & coral. He wouldn't touch it and immediately took out our laptop to show me your website. So...I've only been home a few hours and I'm already writing this note to return the stone. My apologies for the indiscretion, I never realized the religious significance of the stones or the superstitions against removing them from the island. I had some of the best days and greatest luck of my life the last few days and I have no desire to change the balance.  Thank you for creating this site and providing me with the opportunity to have these items replaced respectfully where they belong.  Best regards, V.W., Trenton, NJ 

If you are having bad luck, have taken any lava rocks from Hawaii, and you have found that Pelle's Curse has a hold of you, you can send them back to us at:

Hawaiian Island Weddings
PO Box 2098
Kihei, HI 96753

Aloha, Tim

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Annual Photo Submissions to "Maui Planner" Magazine


Each year we are asked to submit photographs to the "Maui Wedding Planner" Magazine published by our Maui Wedding Association. I have been on the Board of Directors of this Association for 9 years.

This year we have chosen images from our weddings from January to July. The deadline for our submissions is July 22. We can only submit images which we have a model release for. As you probably know, our contract you agreed to, includes this release. If you do not want your images submitted, you must Opt-Out before 7/22/16. Please Send us an email to Opt-Out.

See Full Contract.

"HIW reserves the right to use negatives and/or reproductions of the clients wedding photographs for purposes of display, exhibitions, contests, advertising and other purposes unless otherwise specifically stated herein.... "

Here are the images we plan to submit this year. .


Tim Clark
Hawaiian Island Weddings, Inc.


Hawaii Search Terms Google Trends Analysis

Here are a few of the most common search terms. As you can see, visitors are not searching these terms currently as they were in previous years. You can draw your own conclusions here, but it has a lot to do with the way we now look for wedding services, or any services these days. More and more social media and suggestions from friends are giving us more answers to where to look for these services. I'll elaborate on this as I do more research.


Stressed Out With You Wedding Planning

(Reprinted from weddingforward.com)
Making sure you have enough energy to pull off your wedding-planning and wedding means you will need to plan for wedding timeouts as well. These are not frilly extras that other brides do. These timeouts are important parts of the wedding planning.

1. A Stressed Out Bride
If you get too stressed out over your wedding planning, you will start to stress out those around you. It’s up to you to keep the fun in this special event. There is a fine line between a stressed out bride and bridezilla. If you feel you have too much to do before the wedding to take a time out, you are already past the point of needing one. If you’re having nightmares about flatware and table covers, it’s time for a wedding-planning break!

2. A Strained Relationship
If you and your partner only speak of the wedding while you are with each other, there might be some strain there. The two of you need to remember why you are getting married in the first place. Spend some quality, non-wedding-talk time together. Go out on a date night, or stay in for a romantic night for two.

3. A Proper Perspective
Your wedding, in spite of the best wedding-planning, may (gasp!) not be perfect. There is no amount of planning that will keep the unexpected from happening. You simply have to realize that your over planning is just wearing you and everyone else out. If you take a girls night out, you will strengthen your friendships with them.

4. Fresh View
Let’s face it, some of us get so wrapped up in the details we forget about the big picture. That’s where fresh eyes come in. You forget about the wedding for one evening a week and, the next day, you will have a fresh pair of eyes to envision your dream wedding! As a bonus, you will strengthen the love you have for each other, if you choose to spend it together.

5. Remembering What It’s Really About
When you take the time to forget about all the details of the wedding, you remember something much more important. The love that brought the two of you together. The love your friends and family show by supporting your wedding and marriage. That’s the big picture. This is a celebration of love. The coming together of two hearts to make one home.

6. In Conclusion
Your wedding-planning can take over your whole life, if you let it. Make sure you keep control of your life by taking wedding-planning timeouts. Do this one thing for you and for your wedding party. They will be glad you did.

Try to have as much fun with your wedding-planning as you can. After all, your wedding is a special time for the celebration of love and happiness with the coming together of two families. Your focus needs to be on enjoying these special moments before the wedding. Yes, you want your wedding to be perfect, everyone does, including your wedding party.


Wedding Traditions and Superstitions

(Reprinted from www.giftypedia.com/ with photography by Hawaiian Island Weddings)

Wedding Traditions and Superstitions

There are many traditions and superstitions that have become a part of wedding ceremonies. Many are so old that their origins are not easily traced and the interpretation has been altered over the centuries to work with the times. Some of these wedding traditions are related to culture and beliefs, and many, if not all, are related to luck in the marriage, health, wealth and happiness. In fact, these traditions are so well-known that popular bridal shower games have been derived from them. As the traditional wedding vows say…
‘’…to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.’’
Keep in mind these wedding superstitions are just that, superstitions. Superstitions are defined as a belief or notion not based on reason or knowledge. Do what you will with these wedding superstitions, although they do make for some interesting reading.

Wedding Ring and Engagement Ring Superstitions

From the time the couple gets engaged and the ring is placed on her finger, the superstitions and traditions begin.

The Engagement Ring

The superstitions of the engagement ring start with the ring should never be fully removed from the bride’s hand. The ring should be moved from the left hand to the right hand by placing the two fingers end to end and sliding the ring to the other finger.  
With that the future bride should not allow anyone to try on her ring, especially a "female friend." Superstition has it that she will steal your fiancé if you allow her to try on your ring.
During the Middle Ages, an exchange of rings and a promise constituted a legal marriage. This custom was manipulated by monarchs to their advantage to remove themselves of an unwanted spouse. This led to the custom of two rings - one for the engagement and one for the wedding.
It is said that the engagement ring and the wedding ring is worn on the fourth finger from on the left hand because it was once believed that a vein in that finger lead directly to the heart.
A diamond engagement ring was given by Medieval Italians in the belief that the diamond was created in the Flames of Love.

The Wedding Ring

The earliest evidence of wedding rings dates back to around 2800 B.C. in Egypt. In 860 the Roman Catholic pope (Nicholas I) declared that an engagement ring was required of all those who intended to marry.
The never-ending circle of a wedding band symbolizes eternity because it has no beginning or end. This tradition grew out of an ancient tribal custom of using circlets of grass to decorate a bride's wrist and ankles.
Early Celtic wedding rings were made of hair. The bride and groom would weave locks of their hair together into a braid and the bride would wear the ring as a token of their commitment.
The Claddagh ring is considered the traditional Irish wedding band. It was originally a puzzle ring in three parts. The first part of the ring was given to the bride as her engagement ring. The second and third parts of the ring were kept by the groom-to-be and the witness of the engagement ceremony. At the marriage ceremony, all three parts would be reunited on the bride's finger.
The Puritans renounced wedding bands because they considered jewelry frivolous. Colonial Americans often exchanged thimbles during the wedding ceremony because they were considered practical.. Later, the woman could slice off the bottom of the thimble to create a wedding band.

Superstitions about Wedding Attire

The Wedding Dress

Traditionally, the wedding dress has not always been white. Anne of Brittany made the white wedding dress a popular to the upper social classes in 1499. Before that, a woman just wore her best dress.
The modern wedding dress tradition says that the white dress symbolizes the purity of the bride. Queen Victoria started the modern tradition of wearing white in 1840 when she married her cousin, Albert of Saxe-Coburg.

There is an interesting old poem about the superstitions surrounding the color of a wedding dress...
Today however, the color of the wedding dress is more dictated by what the bride will be happy with and the color scheme of the wedding. Though, wearing white is still a tradition that many brides choose to honor.
It is considered bad luck if the wedding dress is torn on the day of or the day before the wedding. Any bride can understand why this is would be considered bad luck, it just adds to the stress of all that is going on and just not something that needs to happen right before the wedding.
The superstition of the bride making or helps in making her wedding dress is considered bad luck by some and others say it is good luck. We guess this superstition depends on if the bride is good at sewing or not.

The Wedding Veil Tradition

Wearing a veil to cover the face is said to confuse any evil spirits that may be lurking around on this day. As with the bridesmaids, they are to surround the bride as to confuse the evil spirits as to who is the actual bride. Lifting the veil is symbolic of the bride leaving her father's household and officially joining her husband's home.

Other Bridal Wear Traditions

The old rhyme...
Something old, something new, something borrowed,
something blue and a sixpence in your shoe.
... is a tradition that is commonly practiced today[5].

§         "Something old" is traditionally given by a relative. This signifies the continuity from generation to generation.
§         "Something new" symbolizes home for the future.
§         "Something borrowed" is to make your marriage a happy one. Borrow an item from a happily married woman.
§         "Something blue" symbolizes fidelity, love and good fortune. Blue has been connected to weddings for centuries. In ancient Rome, brides wore blue.
§         "A sixpence in her shoe" to wish the bride wealth. The coin should be worn in the bride's left shoe. A sixpence is a coin that was minted in Britain. Another coin may be substituted. In a Swedish variation of this custom, the bride wears a silver coin from her father placed in her left shoe, while a gold coin from her mother is placed in the right shoe, ensuring she will never go without.

The Wedding Ceremony

The superstitions surrounding the date on which the wedding ceremony takes place is related to the full moon. It is said that a wedding should take place the day of a full moon. Many weddings take place in June. It is said that in June on the day of the full moon is most prosperous and long lasting union of all.
What day of week should you be married? The most common day of the week for weddings is Saturday, as it's more convenient for guests, but there is a superstition that stems from English folklore about what day to get married.
The old rhyme goes...
Monday brides will be healthy. 
Tuesday brides will be wealthy. 
Wednesday brides do best of all. 
Thursday brides will suffer losses. 
Friday brides will suffer crosses. 
Saturday brides will have no luck at all.
There are also superstitions about the month you choose for a wedding, certain months were believed to be better than others.

The old rhyme goes...
Married when the year is new, he'll be loving, kind & true, 
When February birds do mate, You wed nor dread your fate. 
If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you'll know.
Marry in April when you can, Joy for Maiden & for Man. 
Marry in the month of May, and you'll surely rue the day. 
Marry when June roses grow, over land and sea you'll go. 
Those who in July do wed, must labor for their daily bred. 
Whoever wed in August be, many a change is sure to see 
Marry in September's shrine, your living will be rich and fine. 
If in October you do marry, love will come but riches tarry. 
If you wed in bleak November, only joys will come, remember. 
When December snows fall fast, marry and true love will last.

Should you marry on a sunny or rainy day? This superstition has several different interpretations. A sunny day wedding means good luck for the bride and groom. However, it is said that rain on your wedding day means that your marriage with be blessed with fertility and good fortune and it is said that rain on your wedding day means bad luck and a short marriage. This is a coin toss; Mother Nature ultimately has the upper hand on deciding what the weather is going to be.

The bride is on the left and the groom on the right is from weddings of long ago. In the event the groom needed to protect his bride from intruders (today they are called wedding crashers) he needed his right side to be free so that he could grab his sword.
The first kiss between the bride and groom at the end of the ceremony symbolizes the swapping of souls.
The tradition of throwing rice at the couple as they leave the church is to bestow prosperity and fertility on the couple. It has recently been thought that the rice posed a danger to wildlife, so some couples replace the rice with bird seed or other types of eco-friendly substances like confetti.

Before the Ceremony

Below are a few superstitions related to the day of the wedding, before the wedding ceremony...
§         It is commonly believed that the groom should not see the bride-to-be on the day of the wedding before she starts her walk down the aisle.
§         It is considered to be good luck for the bride to take once last look in the mirror before going to the ceremony. Though, many say that she should not be in her full wedding attire when doing so. Many recommend that she leaves off something minor, like a flower or a pin, while taking the one last look. Then, she can put that on on her way out.
§         Once she has taken the last look in the mirror, it is said to be very bad luck for her to come back and recheck herself.

The Wedding Reception

History of the Wedding Cake

The wedding cake tradition is almost 2 thousand years old. The Romans baked a small loaf of bread. The groom would eat part of a loaf and break the rest over the bride's head.
In Medieval England, guests would bring small loaves of bread that were piled in front of the couple, who then attempted to kiss each other over the pile.
The tradition of the couple making the first cut into the wedding cake  symbolizes their shared futures.  
A fairly recent tradition, dating back to the early 19th century, is to save the top tier of the wedding cake and eat it on the first wedding anniversary. Originally the newlyweds ate the top tier to celebrate the christening of their first-born, not their first anniversary.

History of Throwing Things at Weddings
The throwing of the garter comes from France where it is believed that pieces of the bridal attire were considered lucky. Today, the groom removes the garter from the bride’s leg and it is tossed to single men. The man who catches the garter is believed to be the next to marry.  
 There is a similar superstition regarding the bridal bouquet toss. The woman who catches the bouquet is believed to be the next to marry.

Gift Giving for a Wedding

The giving of wedding gifts has been a long tradition in the history of marriage. Originally, couples were showered with symbols of fidelity, fertility, and prosperity. This superstition has evolved into today's commonplace practice of creating a bridal registry complete with a list of items wanted by the bride and groom.

Carrying the Bride Over the Threshold  

There are several superstitions that involve the custom of the bride being carried over the threshold by the groom. One of these superstitions was started by the Romans, the as they believed it was to make sure that the bride didn't stumble and bring the newlyweds bad luck. Another derives from an ancient belief that the newly married couple was very susceptible to evil spirits, and the groom carrying the bride over the threshold would protect her from evil spirits lurking below. Another variation is that in the past it was considered lady-like for the new bride to be resistant, or at least appear to be resistant to "give herself away" to her new husband. When the newly married couple would reach the threshold to their bridal chamber, the groom would carry the bride over the threshold to encourage her to go in.